Thursday, August 29, 2013

Your Marriage. How Firm a Foundation?

While each and every relationship requires work, a happy marriage requires a whole lot more work. Marriages may look easy from the outside, but those couples that make it look easy know better.

Frequently newly wed couples are shocked at how much work is needed for the marriage to thrive. While they may accept the trials and responsibilities of a business relationship or parenting responsibilities, they often naively look at their married union as an oasis free from the trials and stresses of everyday life.

Oh, if the honeymoon could last forever! But soon reality squeezes into the marriage and the couple discovers that romance needs to be partnered with a solid foundation upon which to base the longevity of their union.

Here are a few tips to help you begin to build your marriage on a foundation that will withstand the pulls and tugs of life.



  1. Handle the past. Past relationships can be a delicate subject. Often it is wise to let the past remain in the past. But if there are issues you need to air out, do so. Just clear the air and move on. 
  2. Put your agreements and disagreements behind you. It is not just old boyfriends and old girlfriends that can cause you friction. You and your beloved can do that all by yourselves. Make it a point to resolve past differences. Forgive and forget. Yeah, FORGET.
  3. Make plans for the future. Make plans - but don't chisel them in stone! Their needs to be give and take with your future hopes and dreams. Be patient and flexible. Don't be a doormat but show some consideration to your spouse.
  4. Enjoy the present. Happy marriages are filled with happy moments. Many only happen once- a child's first words, his or her first steps. Treasure the present. We are not guaranteed the future.
The path you take in your marriage can be chosen consciously or happen by accident. While some spontaneity is good, planning and old fashioned hard work are key ingredients to almost any happy marriage recipe.




Sunday, August 11, 2013

Is There A Magical Way To Get Your Boyfriend Back?

If you have tried everything else to get your boyfriend back maybe you have now desperately turned to magic.

Abracadabra! Boyfriend, re-appear!

That didn't work to well, did it?

The good news is while you do not need to call on the black arts to bring your old beau back, you can make your own life a little more magical. You can follow a few simple steps to cause him to "magically" become interested - and aroused - once again!

It's really just a matter of adding a little sparkle to you life and a little confidence to your roll. That will engage his curiosity and  rekindle the old romantic feelings.

Here are a few suggestions.

  1. Why not get into the best shape of your life. Do it for yourself, not him. Whether you want to lose a few extra pounds or tone and tighten your physique, you'll look and feel better the next time you cross paths with lover boy.
  2. Move on. Do not wait around for him. To give yourself the best chance of getting back together and working things out you have to be willing to move on. He will come to his senses and realize how much he needs you in his life.
  3. Let him figure out he needs you without you pressuring him. 
There really is no magic in giving yourself the best chance of getting your relationship restored. Just some simple, tested steps that have worked over and over for others that found themselves in the same situation as you are now in. You can get back together with your boyfriend. To Learn More About The Steps Needed To Get Back Together, Click Here!

Friday, August 9, 2013

What You Must Do To Get Him Back .... And Stop Listening To Your Girlfriends So Much!

How can I win back my boyfriend? My girlfriends offer advice but it never seems to help. I know they have my back but I need to be steered in another direction. - Wounded in Wylo, Susanna.

Susanna,
You are correct in realizing that your girlfriend can steer you in the wrong direction. It is intentional, sure. But their well meaning advice could even be steering you in a completely wrong direction.

It is heartbreaking and very difficult to breakup with your boyfriend. It seems all you can think of is getting him back.

Girlfriend can be a great comfort in these trying times. They can listen and give you a shoulder to shed tear upon. They care about you and can help you get through long days and lonely nights.

They want to sincerely help you and offer the best advice they know. But there is one big problem.

The advice they offer is based on a female point of view. It is based on the rules girls play by. And those guidelines can prove very ineffective when you want to get back together with your boyfriend.

You need to know the Boy's Rules. 

1) Never let him see you coming. Your number one priority right now is to get him back. That means you have to dedicate yourself to the task. But, you have to do it in a way that doesn’t look like you’re trying to get him back. Don’t show your hands because he’ll constantly be watching and waiting for you to make your move.

2) Show the world you’ve moved on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.

3) Let him know you’ve got game. All the time that you’re trying to show everyone you’ve moved on, you need to invest in making yourself over from the inside out. Become the stronger, more independent woman you’ve always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin. Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.



Why is this so Effective?

In relationships, you often begin to take each other for granted. The more you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover. You’re presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It’s a curious mystery he’s powerless to resist – especially if there ever were genuine feelings on his part. And your girlfriends? They love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not.