Is Your Girlfriend Refusing To Talk With You? What Her Silence Is Telling You!

Is your girlfriend refusing to even speak to you? Has she cut off all communication after an argument or a fight? This difficult situation can be a tricky one. We usually do all the wrong things when we are faced with a girlfriend that does not want to talk.

Your well meaning efforts to get the relationship back on track are probably only making a bad situation worse.

Trying to talk things out when your girlfriend is too mad to talk is a big mistake.

Your girlfriend is in a highly emotional state. She is furious and does not want to talk. Don't try and force the issue. That's is a worst thing you could do at this juncture. Any overture at communication will be met with rejection when she is in this frame of mind. A phone call or heartfelt e-mail is just a waste of time right now.

Begging and pleading with her won't work.

Begging and pleading for her to take you back is not going to work. You will just look like a weak, pathetic lug to her. She's giving you a message loud and clear but you are not heeding it. The things that might work in an ordinary break up are woefully inadequate in this mess.

Your old bag of tricks is pretty useless this time.

All those trick you use to win her back in a normal break up are null and void. This is a serious break up. In order to make up with her you need some advanced relationship tactics. You need to learn how to put human psychology to use for you.

You are going to need to learn how to interpret her silence.

If you stop and think about it, her silence is speaking to you loud and clear. She is telling you that she needs some time and space to sort out her feelings. Back off and give her a chance to make sense of everything. She does not need your input right now. It is not your turn yet!

Listen to what her silence is telling you.

What you need to be doing at this point in your break up is to give her the time and space that she is seeking. Respect her need for it. She is probably racked with emotions right now and knows that she needs to sort things out. You help is not wanted or appreciated.

Only when the time is right can you begin to pick up the pieces. When your girlfriend is ready to talk, you should be ready to listen. Give her sometime to rationally reflect on things and gain the perspective that time brings. After some time away from you it is only natural that she will begin to look back on the positive parts of your relationship and even begin to miss you.

Restore your relationship from a sound base.

By respecting her boundaries, you will have given your relationship the positive base upon which to start over. You will both be singing from the same page. You will be at a point where you both can begin to rekindle and restore your relationship. Listening to your girlfriend is an important skill. It is especially important during those times when she is silent.

Your relationship can be saved if you adopt an effective game plan.

There are some proven steps you can use to help you win back your girlfriend. They tend to be just about the opposite of what we normally do. They have worked for many other guys that were in about the same position you are in now.

Learn more about these steps and watch a free video discussing the 'First Move you need to take to win back your girlfriend.

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Learn What You Should ( and SHOULD NOT) Be Doing Right Now To Get Your Girlfriend Back

Learn the steps to get your girlfriend back.

If you are struggling to get your girlfriend back, there are some simple steps you need to learn and put to use. You stand a much better chance at repairing your relationship if you follow steps proven to work by countless others. I know you can be racked with pain and regret just after a breakup. True enough, but it's really important that you begin to take the actions to win her back before too much time passes.

Maybe you are filled with regret because you caused the breakup. Maybe she caused the split. But does any of that really matter? If your ultimate goal is to rekindle the relationship, can't you push all that aside for now?

How important is your relationship with your girlfriend?

Ask yourself how important your relationship with your girlfriend is to you. Do you both really care for each other? Is the relationship worth the time and effort necessary to get back together? Now is the time to make an honest assessment of where you stand.

If you have taken a clear headed look at your relationship and decided - Yes! - this relationship is worth saving, you'll want to go about repairing it the right way. Probably the first thing you will need to do is to stop making some blunders that are common at this stage.

What you must not do.

Have you been begging her to take you back? Have you been annoying her with e-mails and phone calls? In a serious split, these attempts to communicate usually backfire. She is not ready to talk with you yet. You are only irritating her and pouring salt in the wounds. Your pleas make you look needy and unappealing to her. Hardly the formula to sweep her off her feet, right?

The first move you want to make is to back off a bit and give her the time and space she needs. This will pay off big time in so many ways. This 'First Move' can be a real game changer. You can learn more about this powerful way to turn things around in the free video on this page:

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It is proven steps like this that will pave your path back into your girlfriend's loving arms. You can try to put the pieces of your broken relationship back together on your own. Sadly, you'll probably make the same well-meaning blunders most of us make. Or you can learn powerful, effective tactics that will give you the best chance to win her back. There is an art to winning your girlfriend back. Learn it. Don't leave this most important of all relationships to your own devices.

Learn more about the powerful techniques you can use to get your girlfriend back.