How Can I Win Back My Love? Just Do This!

You can get back together with your ex lover. You can win back their affection. Here's a story of how one couple found love again.

Looking back Lori could see that everything that happened sprang from a misunderstanding. She had furiously jumped to a wrong conclusion when she saw her boyfriend - Neil - and her girl friend - Allison - whispering to each other.

While Lori jumped to the wrong headed conclusion that her best friend and boyfriend were flirting with each other, they were actually planning a surprise birthday party for her! Well, Lori's furious outburst was a surprise that no one appreciated and there were enough hurt feeling to last for some time.

Neil was very hurt that Lori evidently trusted him so little that she would suspect he was flirting with anyone - much less Allison - behind her back. He became angry and didn't care if he ever spoke to Lori immediately after her outburst!

If you have ever found yourself in such a crazy situation, you know it can seem impossible to undo the damage caused by a few seconds of unreasonable jealous fury. But Lori was able to put things back together - make things right - and get back together with her ex. Here's how she went about it.

Well, just after all this went down, she found out quickly that talking to Neil was just not going to be possible. So, since she could not discuss the situation with him at this time she decided to back off and write him a letter. She sat down and collected her thoughts and wrote Neil a sincere apology.

She poured out her heart and admitted that she was wrong in jumping to such a conclusion and trusting him so little. Then she wrote about all the things she valued in their relationship. Finally she thanked him for being so considerate in planning the party for her in the first place.

Lori did a very wise thing next. She gave Neil some time and space. She kept her distance and resisted her urges to contact him. It took a very long week but Neil worked through his hurt feelings and emotions and came around.

After about a week, she was thinking of sending Neil a short, casual 'Thinking of You' e-mail. Just then her phone rang and it was Neil. It seems the week was a long one for him , too.

After he calmed down some, he realized just how crazily in love he was with Lori. After all, he wouldn't be planning a surprise party for just anyone would he? He found himself smiling when he thought of her. Yes, he missed her. "Who cares if she can be a bit flighty at times?" he thought to himself.

They met for coffee that evening. Lori looked even more beautiful to Neil than he remembered. In no time they were laughing and talking to each other with ease.

Looking back on their blow up months later, it is easy to see that had Lori handled the aftermath as badly as she had the initial outburst thing may have turned out differently. But Lori was wise and handled the situation in a manner that let her and Neil get back together in a relatively short period of time. You can get back together with your ex... if you know how.

Watch this free video that reveals the powerful "First Move" you need to take to win back your ex.

Finding a Way To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

How can I get my girlfriend back?

Have you already tried many ways to get your ex girlfriend back? If you are like all the rest of us you have already tried begging with her, and pleading with her, and even promising that you will change your ways. While these actions may seem reasonable to you, how do you think they are going over with your girlfriend?

If you've had the same results as most of us other guys have had, I bet you answered, "Not very well!" Yeah, begging and pleading and bargaining don't work very well when your girlfriend is really upset. You might get away with that after a minor fuss but when she is really upset - those things just don't help.

Are you just making things worse?

In fact, they can make things worse. In her eyes your attempts to patch things over can make you come off as scheming or even a bit childish. In order to get back together with her you'll need to stop that type of behavior right now. And that goes for any other behaviors that make you look like a pest or stalker. You really need to cool it when she is showing you she's not interested in what you have to offer right now.

Hey, it's really that easy. At least the first step is. Just give her some time and space. That's what her actions are telling you. let her know that you have had some time to think things over and believe it would be best for both of you to spend some time apart.

Oh, what a relief...Wait!

At first she'll probably just let out a sigh of relief. You have given her what she wanted. But after just a small amount of time, she should begin to see you in a better light. She'll start to remember all those things about you that attracted her to you in the first place. She may even begin to miss you.

When you get to this point, you will have turned the relationship around and can begin to rekindle the passion you once shared. There is no reason most relationships cannot be saved. You just need to go about things by following a proven game plan instead of trying to guess your way back into her arms.

You can save your relationship.

If you truly care for each other, there is no reason your relationship can not be saved. But -as you can see - most people really do not have a clue when it comes to restoring a broken relationship.

It is sad really but so many couples that could - and should - be happily back together just are never able to cross that divide. They didn't know what steps to take and were doomed to be apart forever.

It does not have to be that way.

If you really want to get back together, never give up. There are many sources of help available to you. Good friends and family can help. You could even submit to counseling. If you don't want to go through the pain and expense of counseling, numerous written material is available. One resource that I particularly like is The Magic of Making Up.

It's a practical, down-to-earth guide written by T.W. Jackson. You can download it instantly and start implementing the steps to win back your girl. In this e-book, T.W. will guide you through the process of getting back in your girlfriends arms in a short period of time. He has helped plenty of other men and women get back together with their ex girlfriends and boyfriends. He can help you with his practical and effective insights.

To learn more about 'The Magic of Making Up' and to view the free video ' How To Get Your Ex Back - Opening Move, Click Here!

I Tried To Get Back My Ex Girlfriend On My Own - But What I Needed Was A Game Plan

Discover The Simple Steps To Get Your Girlfriend Back..No Matter WHAT You've Done This Time!

I really didn't know what to do after breaking up with my girlfriend after a serious fight. I guess I just sort of assumed things would workout without any real planning and effort on my part. Looking back now - I realize how foolish that was.

I mean if you think about it, we all have game plans in many other areas of our lives that are much less important than the most important relationship in our lives. Once you think about it, it seems rather obvious that we should do a bit of planning in an area that's this important.

I guess that most of us just react to the situations we find ourselves in. In fact, I really couldn't even tell you why we were fussing that night. It was just an emotional war of words. But I can remember the empty feeling in the pit of my stomach that night. I can remember feeling confused and frustrated.

After the smoke had cleared, you can bet I was trying everything I knew to make up and get back together with my girl. You know...trying to call her up....leaving text messages and e-mails.

But this time those simple ploys were not working. They were just causing her to feel pressured and pushed into a corner. I was just making her mad all over again. Soon, even I realized that I was simply making the situation a lot worse. I knew I wasn't going to win back my ex this way.

Of course, I know now that I was just reacting - like we all do - without any sort of well thought out game plan. My human nature was dictating all my wrong moves. It was not working in my favor. It was making me look a lot less desirable to the only one that mattered at that time!

I would never win here back if I continued down this path! I had to learn to change my approach. I had to learn some pretty simple and straight forward step that would radically change the way she felt about me. I had to learn how to harness the forces of human nature. I had to learn how I could use this powerful force to help me get back my girlfriend.

It was pretty simple, really. Soon I was able to turn the tide. I was able to get back together with my girlfriend by following these steps. If you are now trying to get back with your ex, why don't you learn these powerful steps and let human nature work for you. You can get her back and rekindle your romance just like I did!

I Wanted To Get Back My Ex GirlFriend - What I Needed Was A Game Plan

When I broke up with my girlfriend after a serious fight, I just assumed we would get back together without any sort of plan. That sounds rather foolish to me now.

We have game plans in other - less important - parts of our lives. Why wouldn't we have a plan for our relationships?

Most of us just react without anything to guide us. I don't even think the underlying reasons for our break up were all that serious. It was just an emotional fight. But I can remember the sinking feelings in the pit of my stomach. And I can remember the frustration and confusion.

In my confusion, I tried everything that I could think of to make up and get back together with my girlfriend. I tried phoning. I sent text messages. I cluttered up her e-mail account.

But -guess what? All this just made her feel pressured and caused her to pull farther away. It became increasingly clear that this was not going to help me win back my ex.

I guess I was just reacting like we all tend to do. I was not following any sort of game plan. I was just reacting like human nature dictates. And that natural human response was not working in my favor. In fact, it was making me look a lot less appealing to the only one that mattered. It was making me look less desirable to my girlfriend.

I wasn't going to win her back with an approach like that. I learned that if I wanted to win her back, I'd have to change my approach. Luckily, I found out how to take some simple but powerful actions that put human nature on my side.

I was able to turn the tide and get back together with my ex by following these steps. If you are now trying to get back together with your ex, take the time to learn how to use human nature to rekindle your romance.