Friday, September 3, 2010

Get Your Ex Back Guys! 5 Fun Ways That Might Just Work


  1. Send a Bouquet. - Yeah, it's tried and true. Make a big show and send flowers or even a bouquet of balloons to her at work.
  2. Send a Card. - Be sure to send one that shows you've spent some time searching for that perfect one. Find a card that relates to her and her interests.
  3. Ask her out on a 'no pressure' date. -Just spending some fun time at a ball game or zoo without the pressures of any after hour scenarios might just be the ticket to re-igniting the old passions.
  4. Express your love in a letter. An old fashioned 'love letter' gives you a chance to pour out your true feelings - and it's kinda romantic, too!
  5. Write a poem. Roses are red... and Diamonds are blue....If you write a poem.... Maybe she'll come back to you!

Friday, December 4, 2009

Is Your Girlfriend Refusing To Talk With You? What Her Silence Is Telling You!

Is your girlfriend refusing to even speak to you? Has she cut off all communication after an argument or a fight? This difficult situation can be a tricky one. We usually do all the wrong things when we are faced with a girlfriend that does not want to talk.

Your well meaning efforts to get the relationship back on track are probably only making a bad situation worse.

Trying to talk things out when your girlfriend is too mad to talk is a big mistake.

Your girlfriend is in a highly emotional state. She is furious and does not want to talk. Don't try and force the issue. That's is a worst thing you could do at this juncture. Any overture at communication will be met with rejection when she is in this frame of mind. A phone call or heartfelt e-mail is just a waste of time right now.

Begging and pleading with her won't work.

Begging and pleading for her to take you back is not going to work. You will just look like a weak, pathetic lug to her. She's giving you a message loud and clear but you are not heeding it. The things that might work in an ordinary break up are woefully inadequate in this mess.

Your old bag of tricks is pretty useless this time.

All those trick you use to win her back in a normal break up are null and void. This is a serious break up. In order to make up with her you need some advanced relationship tactics. You need to learn how to put human psychology to use for you.

You are going to need to learn how to interpret her silence.

If you stop and think about it, her silence is speaking to you loud and clear. She is telling you that she needs some time and space to sort out her feelings. Back off and give her a chance to make sense of everything. She does not need your input right now. It is not your turn yet!

Listen to what her silence is telling you.

What you need to be doing at this point in your break up is to give her the time and space that she is seeking. Respect her need for it. She is probably racked with emotions right now and knows that she needs to sort things out. You help is not wanted or appreciated.

Only when the time is right can you begin to pick up the pieces. When your girlfriend is ready to talk, you should be ready to listen. Give her sometime to rationally reflect on things and gain the perspective that time brings. After some time away from you it is only natural that she will begin to look back on the positive parts of your relationship and even begin to miss you.

Restore your relationship from a sound base.

By respecting her boundaries, you will have given your relationship the positive base upon which to start over. You will both be singing from the same page. You will be at a point where you both can begin to rekindle and restore your relationship. Listening to your girlfriend is an important skill. It is especially important during those times when she is silent.

Your relationship can be saved if you adopt an effective game plan.

There are some proven steps you can use to help you win back your girlfriend. They tend to be just about the opposite of what we normally do. They have worked for many other guys that were in about the same position you are in now.



Your relationship can be saved even when your ex refuses to talk to you. Click here to get the information you need to restore your relationship.

Monday, November 30, 2009

Learn What You Should ( and SHOULD NOT) Be Doing Right Now To Get Your Girlfriend Back


Learn the steps to get your girlfriend back.

If you are struggling to get your girlfriend back, there are some simple steps you need to learn and put to use. You stand a much better chance at repairing your relationship if you follow steps proven to work by countless others. I know you can be racked with pain and regret just after a breakup. True enough, but it's really important that you begin to take the actions to win her back before too much time passes.

Maybe you are filled with regret because you caused the breakup. Maybe she caused the split. But does any of that really matter? If your ultimate goal is to rekindle the relationship, can't you push all that aside for now?

How important is your relationship with your girlfriend?

Ask yourself how important your relationship with your girlfriend is to you. Do you both really care for each other? Is the relationship worth the time and effort necessary to get back together? Now is the time to make an honest assessment of where you stand.

If you have taken a clear headed look at your relationship and decided - Yes! - this relationship is worth saving, you'll want to go about repairing it the right way. Probably the first thing you will need to do is to stop making some blunders that are common at this stage.

What you must not do.

Have you been begging her to take you back? Have you been annoying her with e-mails and phone calls? In a serious split, these attempts to communicate usually backfire. She is not ready to talk with you yet. You are only irritating her and pouring salt in the wounds. Your pleas make you look needy and unappealing to her. Hardly the formula to sweep her off her feet, right?

The first move you want to make is to back off a bit and give her the time and space she needs. This will pay off big time in so many ways. This 'First Move' can be a real game changer. You can learn more about this powerful way to turn things around in the free video on this page:


It is proven steps like this that will pave your path back into your girlfriend's loving arms. You can try to put the pieces of your broken relationship back together on your own. Sadly, you'll probably make the same well-meaning blunders most of us make. Or you can learn powerful, effective tactics that will give you the best chance to win her back. There is an art to winning your girlfriend back. Learn it. Don't leave this most important of all relationships to your own devices.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Making Up with Your Girlfriend - How to Get Back Together


Have you just broken up with your girlfriend?

If so, you may want to carefully read the tips listed below. While every break up has it's own unique twists and turn, successfully getting back together with your girlfriend often follows a predictable pattern.

Maybe you have been very unsuccessful in winning her back so far. You may be getting down in the dumps and starting to think negatively. Maybe you doubt that you will ever be able to get back together with your girlfriend. If this is the case, realize that you are in that emotional minefield where your frustrations are high while your spirits are low.

It's an emotional minefield where every song brings you sadness and longing for your ex girlfriend.

Everything seems so dim and lifeless without her. Your days are filled with seemingly endless lonely hours. When you are in such a state, it seems any action you can muster up to save your relationship is weak and ineffective.

It is at times like these that you may be tempted to give up. You may want to view your situation as hopeless. You may feel like the most miserable man on earth. But you need to realize something. The pain you are going through is something that many of us have gone through before you. There will be brighter days. Resolve to press forward and win your girl back for good!

Take stock and find out exactly where you stand with her.

How do you look in her eyes? Does she see you as some weak and whimpering mess? Have you been encouraging this view by begging for her to take you back? Such weak and needy tactics rarely work. Even if she does take you back under such circumstances, do you think she will respect and admire you in the future? If you have been guilty of playing the doormat, stop immediately!

Decide once and for all if this relationship is truly worth saving.

It's time to take a cool, detached look at the relationship. Do you really want to go forward? What are the trouble signs evident in this pairing? Do you both mutually care for each other? Take a look at things realistically and determine whether or not to try and save your relationship. If you decide the relationship is worth saving, it's time to take some actions.

Make yourself a more attractive and appealing mate.

Maybe you have let yourself go while investing all your time and energy into the relationship. This could have left you tired, dull, and out of shape. It's time to turn that all around. Invest in yourself. Start eating right. Hit the gym. Invest in your wardrobe. Meet some new friends. If other find you exciting, I'll bet your ex will too!

Learn the proven steps to win back your ex girlfriend.

By taking care of yourself and becoming more attractive and appealing, you will begin to restore some balance to the relationship. You'll give yourself the best chance of winning her back in a healthy and lasting way. See will see you as a dynamic and independent man. The kind of man she values.

There are proven steps to winning back your ex girlfriend. Many men before you have successfully rekindled the passion and happiness they once knew by following the down-to-earth advice contained in 'The Magic of Making Up'. In this easy-to-read e-book (that you can download instantly from the privacy of your own home), T.W. Jackson reveals the simple steps that you can take to get back together with your ex girlfriend.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Finding a Way To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back


How can I get my girlfriend back?

Have you already tried many ways to get your ex girlfriend back? If you are like all the rest of us you have already tried begging with her, and pleading with her, and even promising that you will change your ways. While these actions may seem reasonable to you, how do you think they are going over with your girlfriend?

If you've had the same results as most of us other guys have had, I bet you answered, "Not very well!" Yeah, begging and pleading and bargaining don't work very well when your girlfriend is really upset. You might get away with that after a minor fuss but when she is really upset - those things just don't help.

Are you just making things worse?

In fact, they can make things worse. In her eyes your attempts to patch things over can make you come off as scheming or even a bit childish. In order to get back together with her you'll need to stop that type of behavior right now. And that goes for any other behaviors that make you look like a pest or stalker. You really need to cool it when she is showing you she's not interested in what you have to offer right now.

Hey, it's really that easy. At least the first step is. Just give her some time and space. That's what her actions are telling you. let her know that you have had some time to think things over and believe it would be best for both of you to spend some time apart.

Oh, what a relief...Wait!

At first she'll probably just let out a sigh of relief. You have given her what she wanted. But after just a small amount of time, she should begin to see you in a better light. She'll start to remember all those things about you that attracted her to you in the first place. She may even begin to miss you.

When you get to this point, you will have turned the relationship around and can begin to rekindle the passion you once shared. There is no reason most relationships cannot be saved. You just need to go about things by following a proven game plan instead of trying to guess your way back into her arms.

You can save your relationship.

If you truly care for each other, there is no reason your relationship can not be saved. But -as you can see - most people really do not have a clue when it comes to restoring a broken relationship.

It is sad really but so many couples that could - and should - be happily back together just are never able to cross that divide. They didn't know what steps to take and were doomed to be apart forever.

It does not have to be that way.

If you really want to get back together, never give up. There are many sources of help available to you. Good friends and family can help. You could even submit to counseling. If you don't want to go through the pain and expense of counseling, numerous written material is available. One resource that I particularly like is The Magic of Making Up.

It's a practical, down-to-earth guide written by T.W. Jackson. You can download it instantly and start implementing the steps to win back your girl. In this e-book, T.W. will guide you through the process of getting back in your girlfriends arms in a short period of time. He has helped plenty of other men and women get back together with their ex girlfriends and boyfriends. He can help you with his practical and effective insights.