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Learning The Secret to a Great Relationship From Past Bad Relationships

Relationships can be darned complicated and frustrating as heck, can't they? If you've had your share of ups and downs in relationships over the years, there is something you can learn from them and apply to the next break up or other turmoil that happens in your current relationships. You can confirm the secret I'm about to share with you just by looking back over all the past relationships in your life.

If you are like most of us, you have had a wide range of past relationships that eventually ended. Sometimes it really is mutual where you both grow tired of each other - or just can't stand one another! But most of the time when a relationship fails, either you or your partner wants it to end. And then a curious thing happens.

I'll use my past to illustrate. I'm remembering one long past love affair where the young lady - I'll call her Marie- pretty much treated me like a dog! Looking back, it is difficult to remember anything about Marie that was so attractive. But during the time we dated, I danced to her tune and would do anything to please her. I guess she wished that I would disappear but the more she ignored me - the more desperate I became.

On the other hand, there was this girl in college that seemed to be chasing me. ( Difficult to believe, I know ). I didn't even think we had anything more than a casual friendship but Ann saw things in a different light. I even remember one time when she called me up and asked for my phone number!

Do you see a pattern in these relationships? I'll bet you have had experiences like these in your past: times where you were desperately chasing someone you thought was so amazing and times when someone thought you were special.

It seems that it is just human nature to want something - or someone - we can not have. And we tend to react in a way that makes attracting that relationship almost impossible.

So, the lesson is clear. In order to attract someone, you need to be in the psychological position that is attractive. There is no need to over do things but a little thought to how your actions will effect your partner can go a long ways to building and maintaining a healthy relationship.

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After The Break Up - Avoid These Common Mistakes and Learn How You Can Get Back Together

Did you know that most break ups - even the serious ones - can be patched up? Yes, if you avoid the all too common mistakes that most people make after a break up, then there's no need for the split to become permanent.

Even though most break ups can be fixed, it is a sad fact that too many break ups become permanent. Break ups become permanent in spite of our desperate efforts to make things right. Our natural, emotional reactions tend to drive us farther apart instead of closer together.

But the good news is that there is a way to dramatically increase your chances of getting back together. There are time tested steps you can take to get back together with your ex even when things seem almost hopeless. In this article, we'll take a look at some steps you should take as well as some common actions you need to avoid.

The initial step you need to take might seem - at first - to be the easiest but it can be the most challenging. That first step is to give you and your ex some time and space. Insist on a cooling off period with no contact. Immediately after you have broken up emotions run high and feelings are raw. When you insist on a cool down period, you give the both of you a chance to gain some perspective - and rationality!

Insisting on a cooling off period with no contact also gives you the subtle benefit of demonstrating your independence and ability to get along just fine by yourself. By demonstrating this self sufficiency, you let your ex see you in a more powerful and positive position. When you appear needy or desperate you tend to drive your partner away. When you are strong and independent, your ex will begin to see all the attractive qualities that made you so attractive when you first met.

After you have established this initial period of no contact, it is time to take the next steps. These steps are where you will build on the independence and attractiveness you started in step one. Instead of moping around and feeling sorry for yourself, you are going to spend some time and effort on you!

Get out and have fun with old friends. Meet some new friends. Do something for yourself that you have been putting off for a while. Perhaps you had been putting so much effort into the relationship that "you" got lost in the process. Now is the time to correct that.

You want to get your relationship back through attraction instead of by chasing after it. You can see by pursuing things in this manner, you not only increase your chances of restoring the old relationship - you create the opportunity to rebuild that relationship on a much stronger foundation. You rebuild the relationship on terms where you are valued and respected.

I hope this article has been helpful and has clearly demonstrated the advantages of having a well thought out plan of action when you are trying the restore a broken relationship. By taking these initial steps you will have already increased the chances of getting back together and having an even better relationship as you go forward. If you would like to learn more about restoring your relationship, be sure and check out this video.

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Get Back Together With Your Boyfriend - Girls, Here's Your Guide To Making Up!

If you want to get your guy back. If you want to really convince him that what you share is special - this brief guide to getting your guy back should set you on the right track.

Let's face facts. In most instances the events that led up to your break up were caused by the both of you! Even if you cheated on him or he cheated on you - the fault for breaking up is still a shared responsibility.

In order for you to stand any chance of making up with your guy, you both need to forgive and forget. Trying to forgive and not to forget just will not work. you need to let go of the past and let go of all that anger. You can not allow the anger to cloud your relationship's future.

If you sincerely want to get your guy back for any period of time, you may need to apologize for your part in the break up. The apology should be sincere and heartfelt. A "going through the motions " apology is likely to be manipulative and ineffective.

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Sometimes, you may need to chase your ex-boyfriend a little. You may need to show him you are still interested - just don't over do things. Dozens of text messages and phone calls can convince him that you have become a stalker.

Getting you boyfriend back may mean starting again at the beginning. Do not expect things to always resume when they used to be. A time to re-build trust and comfort may be needed. Hurt feelings take time to heal. Allow your renewed relationship time to blossom.

Not all relationships can be restored. But too many that could be rekindled never are the same again. If you feel your damaged relationship is worth saving, arm yourself with the knowledge to make things good again. Don't allow what could be a wonderful relationship wither and die from the lack of knowing the steps needed to put it back together again.

Time to Move On! Get Over That Guy!

It's no secret that getting over a guy that you once had a close relationship can be very difficult. It does not matter who dumped who - that empty void in your heart will not be easily filled. And even though it will not be easy, you know - deep down - that you can get over him and move on with your life.

Here are a few simple steps to help you move forward with your life.

Put it down on paper. A technique many people find effective is to write a long letter describing the relationship. Write it to your ex-boyfriend. Talk about everything - good and bad - as you saw things. Spend some time composing the letter. Really put your emotions and feelings down on paper.

When you have finished the letter, set it on fire and throw it in the fireplace. You're not going to send it to your ex. Watching it go up in smoke is an excellent metaphor to the ending of your relationship. It can give you closure as you watch that letter being consumed in fire.

Clear your living space of all reminders of him. This can be anything from a portrait to one of his shirts. By clearing your space of his stuff you symbolically clear your emotional space as well.

Get out and do things with your good and lasting friends. Let's face it, guys come and go. But your true friends will always be there for you. Go out and do some of those girly things you have been neglecting.

Use your newly freed up time to take care and nourish yourself. It's time for some me time. Go to the spa. Take a walk. Do some exercising. Anything to productively attend to your needs.

Moving on takes some resolve and effort. Sure, there's a time to mope and be sad. But don't wallow in self pity for too long. It is time to look forward to a happy and loving future. It is time to move on!