After a breakup, most of us keep asking ourselves, " How can I get my ex girlfriend back?" or " What can I do to get back together with my ex girlfriend?" It is easy to beat yourself up and think about all the things you could have done differently. You can even fantasize about writing apology letters and other things to help you get back together.
Going down this path is usually a dead end. You see, the reason this is such a dead end is because it does not address the real reason for the breakup. Women are often emotional and base their actions on feelings. Because of this it's often counterproductive to they and address the breakup head on. Do not expend all you efforts on trying to figure out what went wrong!
Here's the first thing you really need to do if you're serious about getting back with your ex girlfriend. You need to forget about the relationship for a while. Just get away from it. Go out and have fun. Spent time with old friends. Meet some new friends.
After a couple of months, you have given your ex time to breathe and look at things differently. And the time away from a stress filled relationship will have done wonders for you also.
Use this down time in a positive way. Make changes in your own life. Take stock of the relationship. Do you still want to get back together? Are you ready to move on? Now you have the perspective to answer these questions accurately. Do you still want to get back together with your ex girlfriend? Then now is the time to find out how she feels.
The time you have spent apart has given you both a little perspective. Away from the day to day stresses of the relationship, she has had time to reflect. It is likely that she is missing you as much as you are missing her. But now is not the time to become overly emotional.
You will want to play things cool. Let her know that you have been doing well since the break up. Let her know things are fine. Just be sure not to over do it. Seeing you in such a strong place in your life will cause her of value you more. It will let her see you in a very positive light. If you are really serious in wanting to learn how to get your girlfriend back, apply these techniques to give you and your girlfriend the very best chance at reconciliation.
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