It is common in relationships for a little doubt to creep in from time to time. At times you may find yourself wondering whether or not your boyfriend truly loves you.
You may try to dismiss the question from your mind and think you are being quite silly, then something occurs - or fails to occur - and you find yourself returning to this same question. Does he really love you? Perhaps these four simple questions can help you settle the question once and for all.
When you gaze into his eyes, does he look straight into your eyes? While gazing romantically into one another's eyes can be a demonstration of your love for each other, it is not fool proof. Yes, his ability to gaze lovingly into you eyes can demonstrate his devotion to you. Likewise, a beau that can not seem to look you in the eyes could be deceptive - or just bashful. There are certainly instances whether his averting his eyes reveals an overwhelming love and attraction. You really need to interpret how he reacts to you based upon his personality.
Does he show you respect? This is a much more concrete sign of whether or not he truly loves you. Is he honest and open with you? Does he value your input and opinions? Are you his confidante on a wide range of matters? Do you support each other through life's challenges and obstacles? Respect can be shown in a multitude of ways and your guy should be showing your much respect if he really is in love with you.
Does he make time for you? In our hectic world, there never seems to be enough time in the day. We are continually juggling our schedules - deleting this and moving that. The question is: Are you the one getting deleted and moved around?
While there are sometimes that it is really is an unavoidable conflict, taking the back seat on his schedule too often can be an unconscious signal that he really does not love you. It is at the least a subject that you need to bring to his attention. Give him a chance to mend his ways and show you he really loves you and just got caught up in things.
Does he remember those special, romantic days? Does he still remember the special days you share from anniversaries to birthdays. Does he do his best to make you feel special at these times? His track record on these special days can give you an insight into his heart.
While these four questions can help you resolve the question that has been troubling you, always keep in mind that they are only a guide. You must interpret them and apply them to your guy. You know your boyfriend better than anyone else. You must use your powers of discernment to ultimately determine whether or not his love is yours and only use these questions as a helpful guide.
